Sunday, December 27, 2009

Bye Bye 2009

Bye, Bye 2009. It's time to bid you farewell and usher in a new and hopefully prosperous new year. Our 2009 was full of adventure, failure, excitement, sadness, growth, and injury but mostly full of love. Please enjoy our trip down memory lane..........

The beginning of the year brought us a little winter weather. Do you see the look of pure joy on their faces? That is the product of a few mere flurries of the white stuff. The 3W's didn't care how much there was of it, they were just excited to see it. Snow, Snow, Snow!!!!!!!!!



My baby lost his first tooth in February. It was an exciting day for him and a sad day for me. It was our last first tooth :(






January and February was full of basketball games for the #1W and #2 W. Can you believe it, they were both HORNETS!
Here's our Lady Hornet! Don't you love the braids?


#2 is waiting to see if the foul is called on him. He likes to play aggressive. We saw the inside of gymnasiums all over the Middle Georgia Area. #3W was such a trooper. Cheerfully going wherever the game was but always looking for ways to entertain himself as well as the crowd. Check out this crowd pleasing trick!



The weekend after Valentine's Day, Mouse and I hosted DATE NIGHT BUNKO for my Bunko group. It was so much fun. There was lots of good food and drink but mostly good company. We enjoyed rolling the dice and a few of us even left with some special prizes to spice up our date night.

March came with Mouse's 42nd birthday, #1W's 12th birthday and my 41st. Mouse and I quietly passed our days hoping no one would notice but the #1W chose a special way to celebrate her Big Day! She invited 4 of her closest friends to attend a Magic show at our church. His name was Brock Gill and he is a Christian Illusionist. It was impressive!

In March our two dogs, Macy and Cleo were taken from us. And when I say taken, I literally mean taken. Someone came into our yard and took them. First Cleo and 5 weeks later, to the day, someone took Macy. We still mourn the loss of these two great ladies. The were a very special part of our family. We miss you Cleo and Macy.

On a rainy evening in April, while driving down Bluff Road, we spotted this pup. She was about 4 weeks old, covered in mange and fleas. She had no fur to speak of, but we saw something
special in her. We picked her up on the side of that muddy road
and brought her home. After many attempts at a name that had
some meaning to it, we finally gave up and called her Jessie. She is
the most interesting dog I have ever been around. She craves
human affection and she LOVES US!!!!


In the spring, we were base balling it every day. #2W moved up
to B ball and #3W played his last year of T ball. Mouse helped coach the B ball Rangers. Let me just say, it was a nightmare season. I really thought we had lost him to coaching forever. Regardless of the record and even with all the frustration, #2W loved playing. #3W was a T ball Brave this year. He was so serious on the field and in the dugout. He is looking forward to moving up to C ball next year.
Once again, the Fort Valley Arts Alliance presented another children's play this spring. The Wizard of Oz had 2 performances the last weekend in May. Tryouts were held in April and practice began shortly after. Here are The Funky Narrator, The Scarecrow and Munchkin. It was a GREAT SHOW! The Saturday of the final show, #2W and #3W had baseball games. #3's was farely early in the day so there was to be no conflicts and #2's was to start at 4. Theoretically it should have been over by 6, we hop in the car, he change and be at the Theater by 6:30 in plenty of time for the 7:00 show. At 4:00 the 2:00 game was not over and and at 4:15 it went into extra innings. Needless to say, his game got started about 5:00 was over by 6:40 and we pulled into the theater with 5 minutes to spare. In May, the 3W's, my mother and myself made a trip to Oklahoma for my cousin's wedding. #3W had been asked to be the ring bearer.
Doesn't he look handsome in his tux. We enjoyed out time in the tuxedo store and watching him be dressed by the sales lady. He was loving every minute of it




The #3W had a great Kindergarten year with Aunt Marshy and his teacher. Here they are on the last day of school. There were lots of tears. They will miss each other next year but loved every minute of this year together.


Here he is with his three best friends from school. Can you spell t-r-o-u-b-l-e?

The #2W celebrated his double digit birthday with a bash at grandma and grandaddy's house. We brought the Rock Wall and Slip n Slide and let them swim in the pool but I think they had more fun playing baseball in the yard.




Our Family Vacation at Ormond was a GREAT trip again this year. The Bent Palm is our most favorite place on earth


School started back with a bang. #1W a 7th Grader, #2W a 4th Grader and #3W in the 1st Grade. For the first time ever, they were all in school at the same place. Much easier on momma but much harder on the pocketbook. #2W and #3W played in the Little Stinger Football league at school. At a practice after the 1st game, #2W broke his arm. We thought for sure his football season was done for the year but the Dr. E said if he wanted to continue playing he could. (Was he kidding!!!!!) Their 2nd game was the night he got his cast put on. We came home from the doctor, he put on his jersey and we headed to the game. His coaches were great and allowed him to warm up with the team and even serve as a captain for the coin toss. He was at practice in full pads the next week and never missed another game. He even had to wear the cast a couple extra weeks to be able to continue to the end of the season. As a 1st grader, #3w served as a whipping boy to get pulverized and knocked down for the majority of his 1st season as a Hornet. They play had and get hit hard just to make it to the final game where they get to carry the ball. Everyone cleared their schedules to attend and he gave us a good show. He even got to carry the ball twice.
In November, #1W tried out the the school basketball team and made it. She was thrilled as were we. The beginning of 2010 will be full of exciting games to watch. She was also nominated for the Duke TIP Scholarship. This is really exciting. Her grades on the ITBS test were so high that she was chosen by Duke University to participate in this program they have for 7th Graders. She will take the SAT in January and Duke University will follow her throughout the remainder of her school years. It seems to be a pretty big deal! We are very proud of her. She is growing up to be quite a young lady. Thanksgiving was spent with family from out of town. My uncle and aunt from Oklahoma , my aunt and her family from Florida and my cousins were here for several days. Andrew, Kim, Jared and Sarah stayed at our house. We loved every minute they were here.
I started training for a half marathon. That is 13.1 miles. The race will be held on February 6, 2010 on Tybee Island. I know you think I'm crazy. I think I'm crazy but I'm excited at the same time. It will be quite an accomplishment for me. I have made 2 new friends and they are training with me as well as Rebecca from Rebecca's Ramblings. It will be a fun race! I'll let you know how it turns out.
Here is the picture of the 3W's and Jessie from our Christmas card this year. We have had such a blessed year. One that has been spent trying to heal broken hearts and fill voids that were once overflowing with life. God has been so good to send peace and love for our family. Our prayer for 2010 is continued peace and love. We are going to try to live a simpler life in 2010. Spend less and give more is our new moto. For me, I want to be more available to my children and Mouse. Not just taking care of their physical needs but to listen to them and spend time with them when they want me to not when I have time to. I am praying for a successful year with our business and year full of love for our family. Until next time.....

Friday, December 11, 2009

OCTOBER 14, 2009





HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY BABYYYYY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!!!

My baby turned 7 today! I can't believe it. I have loved every minute of the last 7 years with you and can hardly wait to see what tomorrow holds. I love you, Muffin!!!!




Tuesday, August 11, 2009

It's Back to School for the W's

After dropping $145 on school supplies, $300 on new shoes and $400 on "dress code" approved clothing, we are back in school. For the first time ever, I have all 3 in the same place. It has made my morning and afternoon routines so much easier not to mention the mileage on the Taho. HOWEVER, it is certainly a little tougher on the pocketbook. I am finding it hard to swallow that collectively we pay more for the W's school tuition than all our other household bills combined. I think there is something wrong with this picture :( Don't get me wrong..... I love the W's school. Hell, Mouse and I are both alumni but DAMN!!!!!!

2009-2010 school year we have a 7th Grader, 4th Grader and 1st Grader. I can't believe it. I feel like it was just yesterday, I was in the 7th Grade. Thank the Lord I'm not but I sure don't feel old enough to have a 7th Grader and yet my #1W is one. Let me add that raising a pre-teen girl is proving to be more difficult than being a pre-teen girl. I would not have believed that to be possible but it is. Between the hormones that are providing her with bumps on her face as well as her chest to the daily tears and horrible attitude, I'm not sure who is going to last the longest in this household!!! I really feel sorry for her. I hated being 12, 13, 14...... Please Pray . #2W was really excited about his teacher and class mates this year. Not so much the new dress code!! His best friend is in his class again this year and that makes him feel indestructable. Together they can take on anything(anyone). Football will be starting soon (woohoo.....not!!!) Kinda of scared of that sport but he loves it and so does his dad. Oh well. #3W has presented me the greatest source of stress in the school area to date. Last night he told me that he did not want to go back to school. He said that it really wasn't that much fun and that his teacher yells a lot. My heart was breaking. It is hard enough to send him off everyday but to do it when he doesn't even like it....... I sent him a napkin with a note yesterday in his lunch box. I figured he would see it and secretly like it but be afraid to let anyone else see and promptly throw it away. NOPE... This is the conversation:
#3W: "Momma, I found that napkin you wrote on in my lunch box"
Gigi: "You did?"
#3W: "Yes, and I put it in my lunch box, I wanted to be able to keep it"
GiGi: sniff "You did?!?" sniff
How is it that they are just so sweet? Well, we are hoping for things to get better for him and I know they will.




Maybe not, guess what the question this morning was? ...... "How many days again till Saturday?" LORD, PLEASE HELP US ALL!!!

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

In Memory...

In memory of Herman Light, who met the Lord face to face on July 18, 2008.......

These were the words my dear mother wrote for the church messenger this past Sunday. Since July 18 marked the day my Poppa passed away, was on Saturday, she had our local florist make a "colorful" arrangement to be placed on the church's alter for the Sunday service on the 19th. She said, "You know Herman loved lots of color." She was very proud of these beautiful flowers and the opportunity to do something for him.

This year has been so difficult for me. In some ways, I am relieved to have passed the one year mark. We made it though all the firsts. We marked his birthday with balloons and a special "Happy Birthday To You" song in his back yard. We passed Thanksgiving with out of town guests. Christmas was the hardest. We cried a little and laughed a little but made the most of the day. Their anniversary was soooo sad for mother. Her birthday and mother's day passed with little words about him but his absence was felt by everyone. My nephew's wedding was particulaly difficult. It was so hard watching my mother walk in and sit next to that empty seat and to read the lovely note with the flowers that were placed at the guest book in his honor. He would have loved that wedding and throroughly enjoyed watching the W's dance around the reception. I cannot even really talk about Father's Day. You can imagine. But of all the firsts, the anniversary of the day he died was the one I have dreaded the most. I knew that once that day passed I could no longer say(think), this time last year we did this or I saw Poppa this day last year. I know it sounds really silly but passing that one year mark makes him feel even farther away. I know people say that it gets better with time and I guess some of it does. Like, I can look at his picture now and I don't burst into tears everytime I think about him. I can even laugh when I remember some great thing he said or did. I even told my mother how much Poppa would have loved watching Tom Watson play in the British Open this weekend. He would have relished every second of watching that man play that tournament and would have talked about it for days. And I was able to tell her that without tears. But regardless of how much better I am coping with my own emotions I miss him as much, if not more, today than I did a year ago. There are times that I cannot breathe when I think about him and how empty my life is without him. How the one constant, the one truly safe place I had is gone and how I have to figure out this crazy life without his input, advice and even criticism is more than I can take. I am greatful that the Lord took him peacefully and that he is watching over us every day, but.......Hopefully, this next year will bring some peace to our family and maybe even some JOY!! That's what we are praying for. i love you, poppa

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

It's A Double Digit Day!!























10 Years ago today my #2W as born. I cannot believe it. It was a very scary time for us. I had been on bed rest for 3 weeks since he tried to come out at 32 weeks. Thankfully, the doctors were able to help me keep him cooking for 3 more weeks but on the morning of July 8, 1999 he decided it was long enough. He was born by c-section at 11:46 am. He weighed 7 lbs even and was 19 inches long and he was 5 weeks early!!! He slept almost 24/7 for the first 3 weeks of his life and then one day he woke up and he hasn't stopped yet.
He loves sports. Hasn't found one yet he doesn't enjoy and would try to play anything. He never meets a stranger and is always looking for adventure. He is a true friend. He is passionate about everything he does but can quickly move from the baseball field to the acting stage. We love watching him perform whether it is on the playing field, in our living room or in the theater. We have the loved watching him grow over the last 10 years and can hardly wait to see what the rest of his life holds. WE LOVE YOU Y-Man!!!





Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Easter Story Cookies

Last Easter, a good friend of mine shared the recipe for these Easter Story Cookies. Our family really enjoyed making them and thought you might too.

To be made the evening before Easter

1 cup whole pecans
1 tsp vinegar
3 egg whites
pinch of salt
1 cup sugar
ziploc baggie
wooden spoon
tape
Bible

Preheat oven to 300 degrees. This is important - don't wait until you're half done with the recipe!! :)

Place pecans in ziploc baggie and let children beat them with the wooden spoon to break into small pieces. Explain that after Jesus was arrested, He was beaten by the Roman soldiers. Read John 19:1-3

Let each child smell the vinegar. Put 1 tsp of vinegar into the mixing bowl. Explain that when Jesus was thirsty on the cross, He was given vinegar to drink. Read John 19:28-30

Add the egg whites to the vinegar. Eggs represent life. Explain that Jesus gave His life to give us life. Read John 10:10-11

Sprinkle a little salt into each child's hand. Let them taste it and brush the rest into the bowl. Explain that this represents the salty tears shed by Jesus' followers, and the bitterness of our own sin. Read Luke 23:27

So far, the ingredients are not very appetizing. Add 1 cup of sugar. Explain that the sweetest part of the story is that Jesus died because He loves us. He wants us to know and belong to Him. Read Psalms 34:8 and John 3:16

Beat with a mixer on high speed for 12 to 15 minutes until stiff peaks are formed. Explain that the color white represents the purity in God's eyes of those whose sins have been cleansed by Jesus. Read Isaiah 1:18 and John 3:1-3

Fold in broken nuts. Drop by teaspoons onto a wax paper covered cookie sheet. Explain that each mound represents the rocky tomb where Jesus' body was laid. Read Matthew 27:57-60

Put the cookie sheet in the oven, close the door and turn the oven OFF. Give each child a piece of tape and seal the oven door. Explain that Jesus' tomb was sealed. Read Matthew 27:65-66

GO TO BED!

Explain that they may feel sad to leave the cookies in the oven overnight. Jesus' followers were in despair when the tomb was sealed. Read John 16:20 and 22

On Easter morning, open the oven and give everyone a cookie. Notice the cracked surface and take a bite. The cookies are hollow!! On the first Easter, Jesus' followers were amazed to find the tomb open and empty. Read Matthew 28:1-9

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

To Tan or Not To Tan?!?

In light of this new skin cancer issue I am dealing with, I am now faced with a new dilema. To tan or not to tan. We all know that the only way to make white, jiggly skin look better is to add a little color to camoflauge it. For those of you who know me well, you understand how much stress this is causing me. But for those of you who don't, I have been and avid sun bather for years (thus the skin cancer!!!). Not only have I spendt hours laying out by the pool or at the beach but I also regularly enjoy the tanning bed. Since my days of languishing in the sun have been extremely limited by the addition of my 3 children, I have found that I can achieve the same results in a fraction of the time at our local indoor tanning salon. Let's just say that I have spent lots of time and lots of dollars to attain the glow to which I have become accustomed.
I knew that this skin cancer was caused by too much sun exposure and that I would need to cut down on the amount of time that I spent baking my skin but I thought that maybe I could still use the tanning bed. I was sure that the UV rays couldn't possibly be as bad as those from the sun. So, as I am waiting for my surgery to start I proceeded to ask Dr. K about my future tanning needs. He shared with me that I would need to invest in some good sunscreen and a hat. I expected this answer and decided to go ahead and ask about the tanning bed. The conversation went something like this,
Gigi: "Dr. K, I understand about limiting my time in the sun, but what about the tanning bed."
Dr. K: "THE TANNING BED!!!"
Gigi: "Yes, sir"
Dr. K: "Not only can you get damage from the UV rays but you can also get SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES!!"
GiGi: "OMG! Really?"
Dr. K: "Yes, Really!"
Needless to say, I was disgusted. So here I am, pale, white and jiggly with no prospect to change any of these adjectives in my near future.